I have been in the adult industry for about 10 years. I started off at the age of 18 as an erotic dancer and was less than thrilled with the experience. Extra income and the sexual context of dancing attracted me to it, but I disliked the environment, competitiveness, and lack of connection… I am quite a romantic after all.
I soon found my way to a couple of “mutually beneficial” relationships. Some aspects I enjoyed and very much gained pleasure from the ability to apply my entire personality to the interactions, but found that there was always unclear boundaries for both parties. I did not like that either.
Eventually I found myself tending to hourly visits. I loved the fact that I could build longer relationships without the maintenance or confusion in between fun. I love that my visitor and I can drift away into fantasy for a couple hours of my musings, then exit back to our lives feeling satisfied. I found this to be a place where I could combine professionalism, fun, and even an appropriate level of real intimacy.
From here, I have expanded into the adult film world. As with most steps in my career, I found there are many things I enjoy, but I enjoy them better if I do them “my” way. I left the mainstream porn world as I found it to be more exhausting than inspiring, and I currently direct and perform in my own films. Producing my own content has resulted in films that far more accurately represent who I am and what I enjoy.
I am a naturally curious and empathic person, which means it is important to me to learn what makes others tick. In any of my excursions, I am very focused on my partner or client. I think that sex and sexuality are as vital to maintaining well-being as eating, sleeping, and socializing. Our sexual selves are the rawest and most primal aspect of ourselves, and I am the professional that will help you maintain that in a world that often does not make space for it.
I provide a variety of exciting services as a life coach, sexuality consultant, advisor, companion, escort, adult film producer, and more. I provide a rounded, enriching experience in all aspects of my work. I have a vast array of genuine interests sexually and love to be social. I love to learn and have fun, without judgement. I find passion in helping others expand their horizons and engage in healthy and sex-positive practices. I am someone who helps provide a unique type of self-care, similar to that of a massage or weekend retreat. The type of self-care that I foster is uniquely tailored to the gentlemen (or ladies) that find exploring their desires to help them be true to themselves.
More About Me
I am a passionate gourmand and love to indulge in food. That is the other primary hobby in my life. I am a trained chef, but no longer working in kitchens — I like having my nails manicured too much.
I also enjoy theater, comedy, shopping and fantastic cocktails. I consider myself to be a hedonist in all ways imaginable.
I’m also a sex-positivity activist and educator as much as opportunity allows. I approach all of my indulgences from a centered mind and gain the most pleasure in guiding others in down their own hedonistic path, whatever their pleasure may be.
Some do not recognize that I have a vast history in BDSM. Please do note that Fetish is not a requirement for me. I equally both vanilla and more wild experiences.
Enjoy reading below about some of the Kink and BDSM activities that I find inspiring in both my personal and professional life. Please feel free to inquire if you would like to be educated online or in person on any of these practices.
Enjoy reading here about some of the Kink and BDSM activities that I find inspiring in both my personal and professional life. Please feel free to inquire if you would like to be educated online or in person on any of these practices.
Please do note that Fetish is not a requirement for me. I equally both vanilla and more wild experiences.
When someone asks me what my fetish is, I explain to them that my primary fetish is based around the possibility of a dynamic. What this means is that I find pleasure in creating, executing, and building different dynamics. I was a Dominatrix in Chicago for several years and do enjoy entertaining fetishes to this day! Nowadays I tend to mix a bit more maternal love and sensuality into my play, but I am as depraved and creative as ever.